10 Things I Wish I Knew before Marriage

My husband and I are quickly approaching our third anniversary. While I am no expert on marriage, I have learned a lot about myself during these last three years. If I could go back and give my single self a little advice, this would be it:

1. Be selfish with your time. Once you have a family, "me" time becomes "our" time. Being alone is OK. One day you may forget what it's like and the grocery store will seem like girls weekend (not kidding).  
2. Travel as much as possible. Even if you're alone, get on a plane and see as many places as your heart desires. One plane ticket is a lot easier on the wallet. 
3.  Plan your wedding. It doesn't matter that you've been single for the last 3 years, every girl has the right to know what she wants. Plan away, sister.
4. Happiness is something you have to choose. Don't depend on a thing or a person for your own personal happiness. You control how you feel, choose to be happy regardless of your circumstances. Finals will be a faint memory one day, I promise.
5. Pray and grow closer to God. Have a personal relationship with God, it's the most important thing you can do for the present and the future.
6. Enjoy school. Don't wish away your education. You are privileged to sit in a classroom learning on an almost daily basis. Gain as much knowledge as possible and never stop seeking answers. Form your own opinions but always be open to other perspectives.  
7. Avoid cooking. This is probably bad advice. But eating an avocado for dinner or a bag of chips won't cut it once you're married. Men like a meal, like a full meal, with meat and a starch. AND skipping a meal? Forget it. So like I said, avoid cooking, you have the rest of your life to do it.
8. Finding the right person will happen when you expect it least. I am convinced that 99 percent of the human population has heard this piece of advice. And I am pretty sure 98 percent of them ignored it. Be the 1 percent, believe me, it will happen.
9. The wedding isn't a big deal. Many coin the wedding day as the "most important day of your life." Trust me when I say it's not.
10. Those "most important" days are yet to come. The best days will be found in the midst of trials and triumphs. These "important" days are often unplanned and unexpected but perfectly timed.

730 Days

Warning: This post is super mushy.

December 31st marked two years since I said 'I do' to my best friend. We welcomed the new year and celebrated our anniversary tucked away in a booth at one of our favorite restaurants near our first house. I loved everything about this night,  the only way it could have been better is if it didn't end. 

Chris: Thank you for challenging me and making me a better person each and every day. I wouldn't want to be on this journey called life with anyone else. In the past two years I have learned a lot about compromise, appreciation, loss, happiness and change, but mostly I have learned about true, pure love. I know without a doubt you are my soul mate and my forver. Happy Anniversary, babe. I love you always.

Life Lately

Change is finally coming in a way that is so needed over here. I am excited for the next chapters in my life to unfold, I promise to be sharing them with this little corner of the internet as soon as everything is settled!

Chris & I spent our Spring Breaks working, perks of being an adult. yay. He did spoil me and take me to the JW Marriot for a night of fine dining and a stroll around downtown disney. It was nice to have a change of scenery and to just be unplugged for a bit. As much as I would like to deny it, routine consumes our busy schedules Monday through Friday. We try to mix things up on the weekends but many times our weekends are used to catch up.. leaving little time for adventures  we so badly crave. So our one night away to the beautiful JW may seem simple but it was beyond appreciated and needed for this sister. 

Chris,

i know this semester has been full of craziness. thanks for picking up my slack and loving me in a way noone else can. the way you make me laugh in the most impossible situations still amazes me. i am so blessed, how did i get so lucky?! i appreciate you more than you will ever know. i love you forever handsome.

xo,

B